The Power of Your Heart.

One week until we are at the beach for a real, relaxing vacation. I can hardly believe it or wait! Frank’s mom comes in on Thursday and we are off to the Outer Banks on Friday. Joy, pure joy. To just have my feet and hands in the sand and watch the waves come and go will be enough. I have a friend who is an amazing Tarot Card reader, Therea Reed, and she draws a card for us all every day. You can find her at Today’s card was The World, and I thought I might share that with you :

Card for the Day: The World – A cycle comes to an end at last. Completion. Every last loose end gets tied up. Chapter closed. Closure. Success. A new beginning is on the horizon.

I’ll sure tell you that resonated with me on so many beautiful levels. And, it is absolutely in line with what I woke up this morning wanting to share with you. Because tarot, god, the universe, spirituality is not about the brain and coming up with rational answers. It is about the heart and soul.

Our human brain, our ration, our mind can only do so much. It is not half as powerful as the heart. This is why just hiring an attorney for your divorce or a doctor to look over your health is not enough to heal our wounds. The universe is made up of a multitude of energies. Our hearts are 100 times stronger electrically and 5000 times stronger magnetically, and it is the electric and magnetic that create electromagnetic fields. These electromagnetic fields of the heart can be so powerful when certain emotions are present (and especially when people come together with the same emotion or intention) that the electromagnetic field will extend outside of ourselves and into the physical world. What does this mean? It means the human heart is made to change atoms, fields, the physical world, the way things are in response to the emotions we create between our heart and our brain. When we choose “coherence” in our bodies (bringing together the mind and body) by experiencing appreciation, gratitude, forgiveness, and compassion — these emotions are mirrored in the physical field outside of ourselves and everyone benefits. If we can change the magnetic or electrical field of an atom, we change the way things are.

This is why I truly believe that strict law or mediation to get to an agreement, to set up a co-parenting schedule or a financial transfer is not enough in divorce. It takes more, a combination that includes: intuition, allowing love to come through, supporting emotions that are present, consciously creating a new relationship form that works for both parties. By using the heart in divorce, we heal ourselves, each other, our children, and the world around us.

One tool to transform your own energy each day is to use the white light visualization. Every night before you go to bed and every morning when you wake up, close your eyes and visualize that a shower of white light is falling all over you. Just visualize this waterfall (cachoeira in Portuguese — I love the word) of white light and allow it to cleanse your energy. Breathe it in and out with five slow, deep breaths. This is a very simple tool that you can even teach your kids.

I hope this is helpful today. I send out postive healing energy to you all.

Go here for more resources on going through divorce and healing your way through it. Please leave a comment here. I want to hear about what you think and how you have taken action this week. Let’s talk on the Facebook page or send me an email at

The divine light in me honors the divine light in you,

P.S. If you live in the Washington, DC area, here is the information on my new office for mediation clients in Maryland, Washington, DC, and Virginia : 1425 K St. NW, Washington, DC 20005. My telephone number is (202) 587-2772 .

P.S.S. Get ready for some amazing resources! Not only do I post a weekly interview with a divorce-related professional or divorce story to learn from, but I am also about to give you a few key legal resource sites for each of your states. I will let you know when you can grab your local resource kit! Go here for the weekly interviews.

One comment

  • Diana Achee

    THANK U Candace!
    Diana Achee

    August 16, 2012

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